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lina's avatar

this is beautiful! learning to pause feels like learning a new kind of trust sometimes, thank you for sharing this <3!

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

It is a way to trust, absolutely! Thank you so much for reading, it means a lot β™₯️

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Giulia's avatar

Taking a moment of pause to be present, you’re so right! I loved reading this post! "Mistakes in art? You mean extra texture" πŸ˜‚ exactly

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

Thank you so much! Shifting my perspective around what is a mistake has made a huge impact! embracing the messiness! ☺️

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Nadine Feghaly's avatar

Highly relating to your words and experience with the listening, letting the brush, colors, paper, guide us :) and not wanting to get anywhere but the process itself, no fixing, no rushing, just being with what is.

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

So pleased to hear it resonates! Embracing the process as the key itself was such an important shift for me! πŸ₯°

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Juliet Wilson's avatar

This is so true.

I've written stories where I haven't known quite where they're going and one of the characters steps forward and shows me the way...

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

This is beautiful! Once we let things unfold, suddenly we see ways forward!

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Amy's avatar

The power of the pause; the ability to respond rather than react to what unfolds before us; to converse rather than seek to control. Both in art and life - as you have captured so beautifully here. Thank you for these insights Ela <3

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

Yes! Both in art and life - the more clarity I have around my creative process - the more clarity I have in life. All areas of our lives are so connected!

Thank you for taking the time to read πŸ₯°

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Asia Bochenek's avatar

Pausing is presence. I love this so much. How we can be afraid of our own intuitive moves in our own art, right? Often one 'wrong' line or layer reveals another story that wants to come through.

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Ela Bochenek 🎨's avatar

Right? I can’t believe I was resisting so long something that feels so natural. β™₯️

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